Congratulations on being braver than most guys! You were able to attract a hot girl you like, flirt a bit with her and even get her number. Sweet!
But how do you approach her afterward? What to text her to make her want you? Can you even go as far as sending her flirty text messages?
The short answer is YES, you definitely can and should do so!
Flirting with a girl over text can be an exceptionally effective way to not only turn her on but also to secure a date with her and even make her crave you. Nevertheless, if you want to maximize your success and skyrocket your chances with women, you should consider the following steps.
Best Flirty Text Messages For Her
The whole point of flirting is to spice things a little bit, to move the entire topic in a bit more sexual direction and sparkle some lust and desire.
A great thing to know is that women themselves love receiving flirty text messages, being provoked and teased.
Now is the perfect moment to reveal your intentions and start building the foundations of your future relationship.
Remember, with these texts, you aim to start reveling your intentions and give her good enough hints about how you want your connection to develop.
If you are at the beginning phase of your rapport, try to tune down the amount of sexuality and lust that your flirty messages for her carry. The point is to make your point clear and not to present yourself as a sexual maniac!
You can use the following examples:
1. Send me a picture so I can tell Santa what I want for Christmas.
Flirty, passionate and attractive. Some may think this sounds a bit of a cliché, but let’s be honest- if it works, the rest doesn’t matter. And this text is a great way to present your intentions more playfully. Definitely use it around Christmas time!
2. Can you lend me a kiss? I promise I will give it back.
The most elegant way to approach flirty text messages is to focus on the lips. Passionate enough to provoke a spark of interest, yet you aren’t focused on her body. A way to flirt with her that is sure to guarantee a smile on her face!
3. Umm, I have a problem and I need help- I can't stop thinking about you.
A funny and intriguing way to tell her straight she has occupied your mind. What a better way for her to feel special than to know that somebody can't stop thinking about her beauty? This might be quite a decent message, especially if you are lacking any good ideas for topics or just want to start another conversation with her.
4. Can you stop being so gorgeous? You are driving me crazy.
Being called beautiful- who wouldn’t feel unique after that? Giving compliments in such fashion is considered “trivial” by some people. Yet, you will be surprised just how positive of a reaction this may provoke.
5. I think there is a mistake in the dictionary. I checked the word beautiful and even it cannot describe you.
Once again, we get back to the idea of giving some praise to her beauty and gorgeousness. The best way to flirt with a girl more professionally would be to focus on provoking positive feelings, giving a smile on her face and making her feel like on top of the world!
6. You remind me of my next girlfriend.
If you want a bit of a more direct approach, here is a chance for you. This approach is like trying to go for a home run. She might just giggle a bit, or she might accept your invitation to a romance!
7. When I looked at you, I knew something was missing. Aren't all angels supposed to have wings?
It should be of no surprise that girls enjoy anything sweet, cute and touching. And is there a better way to tell her just how gorgeous she is than comparing her with an angel? This might not be a “new” entry, however, this method has continuously brought success again and again.
8. This should be illegal- with each day, you are getting more and more beautiful.
Again, give the girl some praise. You might be surprised by the number of people who actually have the guts to tell a girl she is gorgeous. And this is a clever way to provoke her and intrigue her.
9. God must be showing off when he created you.
Just like comparing her with the angelic beauty, what other way to describe her gorgeousness than to compare it with the divine grace? This is a catchy phrase that may secure you a direct home run if you use it appropriately.
10. From the moment I saw you, I knew what I wanted in life.
Once again, this is a more direct way to tell her straight up you have a strong liking for her. When a girl realizes that she has caught a guy’s attention, this is all the reasoning for her to feel special and beautiful. And for you to get a girlfriend!
Best Flirty Good Morning Messages
A topic that seems to bother some guys is when exactly are you supposed to text the girl, and in our case, send her flirty text messages?
A good idea might be to try your luck early in the morning. The first thing the girls see is your text. This indicates that you care for her and have her on your mind as a priority. Furthermore, you might be all she needs to brighten then day.
As the famous quote says, win the morning, win the day. Well, in our scenario will be- flirt with her in the morning, win her heart for the day!
And here are several examples of what you can use and strive for.
1. I hope your day is as beautiful as you.
Compliments are the way to go! What a better way to provoke some passion than to remind her how gorgeous she is from the very start of the day? If you leave a smile on her face this early, be sure it will last for the day!
2. Today I had a great morning- after all, you were the first thought that came to my mind.
We often forget just what significance the first thought in a day has- this instantly stresses the thing that has our attention.
And letting her know just how special she is in your eyes stands a high chance of provoking a deep romantic liking,
if not even love from her side.
3. I woke up here in my bed, you woke up in your bed. Well, obviously one of us is in the wrong bed.
An excellent sexy way to provoke some intrigue and playful passion from the beginning of the day. This directly says that you are attracted to her. Not to mention, depending on the girl, who knows what kind of fantasies that provoked in her mind!
4. I heard you are good at maths. If that is so, how about this one- take this morning, add a bed, subtract your clothes, divide your legs and we can multiply!
This one is a killer in terms of provocation. You don’t need to explain yourself- you get straight to the point in an adorable and catchy way. Who knows, you might be surprised by her reply- she might be better at multiplying than you can imagine!
5. All I need is to wake up beside you to make my mornings wonderful.
You want her, and you are letting her know that. Straight and simple. The image of you laying in bed together, welcoming the morning and preparing for the day. This might be all the romantic vibe she has ever wanted.
Best Flirty Good Night Texts
Since we covered the begging of the day, why don’t we also go over the end of the day? It is the night time, when the girl is about to fall asleep, shaking her head off all the noise and troubles she might have had.
And now she is alone with her thoughts. So why don’t you join her in her imagination?
Letting the girl know that she is the thought you go to sleep with will provoke liking and passion, but also you will take a specific place in her mind.
And the more she thinks about you before falling asleep, the deeper your connection can grow.
If you want to wish her a good night, maybe provoke some desire and get your image in her mind, here are several examples you can use.
1. Let's make a deal- I will dream about you and you will dream about me, okay?
A cute way to make it obvious you enjoy her company and want to spend time with her. If she does happen do be thinking more and more about you and, as a result, dream about you, well, doesn’t this mean you just got a girlfriend?
2. There is one thing I am missing right now to make my night wonderful- you, in my bed!
Give her a more playful vibe. Teasing and provoking is a sure way to get a place not only in her mind, but also in her heart. The thought of two of you lying in one bed, together, cuddling and kissing, is enough to get the romantic mood going and her to think about you.
3. You are the sweet thought I go to sleep with every night.
We made it clear- just as at the beginning of the day, at the end of the day, right before you fall asleep, you don’t worry about troubles. Just the opposite- you are thinking about all the pleasant and happy fantasies you have that you wish come true. And what better than her being yours?
4. Since I can't stop thinking about you, I thought I should text you and wish you goodnight.
Another cute way to tell the girl you have her image in your mind and that she is essential. Wish her goodnight and hope that you will be there, in her dreams.
5. Wish I was your teddy bear so you can cuddle and hug me all night long.
Let's be honest, wouldn’t you like her warmth going tightly around you? The physical connection, aka hugging and cuddling with one another, is a vital aspect of every long-lasting relationship. And what better way to carry the message than to have the two of you spending the night together?
6. You are giving me a hard time trying to fall asleep.
Tell her that you cannot get her image out of your mind. The lady will is sure to enjoy it.
7. If we were in the same bed right now, you would find out the true meaning of being cozy.
Indicate that you want to hold her, cuddle her and be with her. Nothing more romantic than the two of you warming one another, ready to fall asleep in each other’s hands.
8. If you ever have any doubts, don’t forget that you are my everything. My everything forever. Sweet dreams.
Directly approaching the girl and showing her just how important she is for you. A great way to go straight to the point and show her that she is always a priority. Making her feel loved and special- this is how you open her heart.
Examples Of Flirty Texts To Ask Her To Be Your Girlfriend
We have gone through a lot of different variants of how you can approach flirting over text. But what about if you want to go a step further and ask her to be your girlfriend?
No worries, you can definitely achieve this goal.
Once you feel like the atmosphere is set up and she has some liking and interest built up, then you can go ahead and take her out.
To accomplish this task successfully, you can use the following examples.
1. I truly enjoy our relationship, but I was thinking… how about we make something more?
Don’t be afraid to ask her out. This is a more direct approach, yet you present yourself more elegantly. With this move, you are saying that you want and seek romance.
2. If I were the last guy on Earth, would you date me?
This example might be going to an extreme scenario.
Nevertheless, you will know where exactly you stand in her eyes.
If the answer doesn’t satisfy you, it will mean that you have to build more emotional attachment and then ask her again.
3. If I agree to be your Romeo, will you be my Juliet?
A more engaging way to ask her to be your girlfriend. Again, you are sending this because you think the time is right. So, there should be no need for you to worry.
4. Wish you were her
e… hugging me… kissing me
You make it clear what your intentions are. You want to be the teddy bear the girl will love, kiss and cuddle as much as possible.
5. They say nothing lasts forever. In that case, will you be my nothing?
Another not your typical way to ask her to be your girl. This one is sweet and catchy. There is a good chance that you will provoke a positive vibe from her side.
Tips To Follow When Flirting Over Text
As you probably noticed, there is some “pattern” in the examples. You might decide to use some of the mentioned phrases, or craft some yourself. Either way, here are several good points to keep in mind.
1. Don’t Show Lust
The idea of flirting doesn’t necessarily always mean lust and sexual experience. If the girl feels like it, you will know. But until that time, it might be better for you to go a bit slower and gradually build up momentum.
2. Be Honest
If you genuinely think everything you write, your texts should be saying it. When you are complimenting her and trying to flirt with her, it should seem like it comes from the bottom of your soul, that you truly think that the girl is beautiful and gorgeous.
3. Make Sure You Double-Check Your Texts
In pretty much all cases, girls will be turned off by guys who make easily avoidable grammar or spelling mistakes. Errors may occur, but there is a line you shouldn’t cross.
Especially when you are flirting with her and asking her out. One Spelling mistake might turn her off and totally ruin your chances of success.
4. Keep It Short And Sweet
Write less, get more. You aren’t doing yourself a huge favor if you text her more. Keep an aura of mystery around you. Leave all the spicy information for when you get to meet her face to face or on your next date.
5. Be Manly
This one might be hard for some to grasp, but you should act like a man, sound like a man, and, respectively, write like a man. Don’t go into meaningless discussions that turn into gossiping about others. Show the girl that you are a man of pride and honor, some who respects himself. This way, you will love yourself more, and as a result, she will love you more, too!
And here you have it! A nice variety of different texts you can send a girl at different parts of the day. Moreover, your chances are sure to skyrocket if you follow the five steps when sending her flirty messages.
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