We are all familiar with the bad boy type of behavior women love and adore. There is just something about him – the alpha male traits he shows that turn a girl on so damn hard. The aura of mystery and provocation of interest are all powerful signs of male attraction. And women can read them quite well!
Nevertheless, these aren’t some magical gifts that only certain guys were born with. Instead, the badass has developed and implemented all the alpha male traits that create the desired impression of him into a woman’s head.
This means that if we identify these alpha male characteristics, we can copy and use them ourselves!
If you want to improve your game with girls and make them crave you like a real badass, you should consider the following signs of male attraction.
Powerful Signs Of Male Attraction And How They Make All The Difference
When you hear the term alpha male, there is a specific image that comes to mind. A guy with a dominant personality, deep voice, well built, charismatic, enthusiastic, and tough- in his own way.
These factors, as well as several more, help define the overall image of the alpha leader. Now, let’s dive a bit deeper into how you can transform into him.
Self-Esteem Is The Backbone Of Alpha Male Attraction
If you had to guess the single thing that makes all the difference, that either makes or brakes the image, it would be this- self-esteem. High levels of confidence play a more important role than you might have ever imagined.
To begin with, self-esteem goes hand in hand with self-worth. You know you have a price, and it can be quite a high one. As a result, you won't settle with just about anything or anyone- contrary to what most guys nowadays do.
Secondly, a high level of confidence means that you aren’t afraid of trivial matters such as approaching girls, feeling nervous and mumbling, and worrying what others may think about you.
Once you get this view on life, well, you become pretty much limitless.
It doesn’t matter the specific trait you focus on, they all rely on self-esteem in one shape or form.
An important thing to realize is that often, there is one factor that prevents regular guys from becoming the most impressive, aka alpha, version of themselves- and this factor is fear.
If you think about it, most of the problems you have, occur only because you are exceptionally nervous, and as a result, you can't think or act straight. Therefore, you screw things up.
The best piece of advice to become more alpha as fast as humanly possible is to do one thing that scares you every single day. EVERY SINGLE DAY. This way, you will eventually become numb to the fear you have and as a normal reaction from this exercise, your confidence will grow.
A True Alpha Male’s Body Language
Of curse, we cannot discuss alpha males without mentioning the subconscious signs of alpha male body language attraction.
This simply means, how the guy acts and reacts in a scenario of provocation- be it holding a conversation with a stranger, or trying to pick up a girl.
Either way, you will notice one crucial aspect — the eyes.
Signs Of Male Attraction- The Eyes
If you have ever been interested in a girl, for how long have you kept eye contact while the two of you are staring at one another? My guess is, not for long.
There is some doubt, some fear about what may or may not happen that is preventing you from keeping focus and provoking the lady.
In terms of alpha males, they are always able to keep a steady, warm, passionate gaze at the girl.
This screams confidence, security in one’s self and his chances against other guys.
Not to mention, pay close attention to his whole body.
Okay, let’s get one obvious factor out of the way- he is usually well built and defined. If you don’t see yourself in this image, this is your wake up call to start hitting the gym more seriously.
Next, do you see him sweat? No.
Do you see his voice going for a high pitch? No.
So what do you see? His head is up high, the chest is out, and most importantly- his presentation is on point.
Even if he is talking to an exceptional beauty, this doesn't get on his nerves. He simply talks with her in a relaxed and dominant manner. All these small points add up and build the entire persona.
An Obvious Sign Of Male Attraction- Being In Charge
What does alpha male mean? That this individual is unique and unlike the rest of the “pack,” he has superior qualities than others and, as a result, he is the one in charge. He is the one who leads.
While this term was initially used when describing the behavior of a group of animals, a similar scenario happens in our lives daily.
In the exact same way, in a public crowd, there is usually one guy who gets most of the girls. He isn't the only candidate, yet he has no competition. Well, part of it is that others have no balls and don’t want to compete, which only makes it easier for the leader.
You should be this guy. You should be this leader.
Women are attracted to the guy of “strength,” be it physical, intellectual, social, or a mix of all of them. It is set in our biology as humans.
Want to test if you are the one in charge? Just think about your daily activities- at work with your co-workers. Are you the one who leads the rest? If the answer is yes, then you can be proud of it- this is a sign of male attraction and dominance at work.
An Alpha Male’s Style Is Always On Point
As simple as that- you should always take care of yourself. It should go without a saying that you put some time and effort into your personal style- after all, this is the way you present yourself at first glance. And if you fail to make a first impression, it might very well be your last impression.
The more care you take of your style, the better it will get for you. You will be sending both direct and subconscious signals to girls- that you take good care of your own wellbeing, that you spend time and effort on your image, that you have the very best chances of presenting yourself to others.
Being Positive And Inspiring Others
The more self-respect, self-esteem and self-love you have, the more you can give. And, as a result, the more you will build.
One crucial aspect that is often misunderstood in the ability to influence others. After all, you cannot lead others if you cannot communicate, connect and influence them.
And, in most cases, this goes hand in hand with optimism. Especially nowadays, when everyone is pessimistic, you can easily stand out from the crowd.
The best way to influence others, and this can very well mean attract girls, is to alter them, to encourage them and positively provoke them.
Yet, this comes all back to self-esteem. It can indeed do wonders for you if you know how to embrace it and use it constructively.
What Differentiates The Alpha Male, The Bad Boy, And The Nice Guy?
One thing that often confuses guys is the connection between these three stereotypes- the alpha male, the bad boy and the nice guy. So, let's try to make things clear.
The Nice Guy is the one you will often hear girls themselves admitting they want and crave. However, while he possesses the quality of a good and loyal man, his lack of self-worth and the fear of taking risks, especially when it comes to dealing with girls, is what sends him directly into the friend zone.
Since he has no confidence that he is worthy of a better girl, he will pretty much go like a dog after his master, trying to satisfy her in any way possible with the sole purpose of her not leaving him.
From the get-go, when things become tough, he instantly loses all the respect he might have had by playing Mr Goody Two Shoes and diminishing his significance, trying to please others.
The Bad Boy is arguably the guy who breaks the rules, the one who cannot be tamed and follows no one. Girls find particular interest in him because they are emotionally driven. In many cases, women don’t think about long-lasting relationships. Instead, they are thrilled by the adventurous nature of the bad boy, and by the exciting experience they can have together.
The bad boy always seems to win upfront either because he can present himself better than the nice guy, or simply the girl is walking trash that desires nothing more than sex- and firmly believes that the bad boy will be able to satisfy her.
But being a jerk can only get you so far. Well, as you can already guess, this guy might achieve with short term success, but in the long run, he hardly ever wins.
The Alpha Male is the guy who pretty much sums the positives of the other two stereotypes. He is dominant, leading in charge, doesn’t break a sweat when times get tough- just like the bad boy. On the other hand, he possesses the calm, yet tough mindset of the good guy- except his lack of self-worth. When combining the two, you are left with a guy who is confident in his ability, knows what he wants, knows how to get it, and is willing to get it, no matter who or what.
And, in terms of ladies, the alpha male can present himself effectively from the initial meeting and create a desirable image of himself. However, he is also able to sustain it long term. This is the Badass women love and the guy they crave.
As you can see, there are differences between all the types mentioned above. Arguably, they all have strong and weak sides.
The aim is to find out the specific characteristics that will benefit you and adopt them so that you can change your life for the better.
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