Texting is the new way the old game is played. If you want to get a girl’s attraction and attention, you need to text her properly to spike her interest.
But don’t worry, there is nothing complicated in texting and getting a woman intrigued by you over text. In fact, it happens quite easily. And, the reward of you taking a drop-dead gorgeous girl out on a date is something you can be proud of.
Snapchat is one of the most popular platforms to do so. Come to think of it, I would say all the girls I know and have dated actively use it. And to help you score some points for yourself, here is a list of things to consider when texting a girl on Snapchat.
Texting A Girl On Snapchat- Texts, Story, Questions And Flirting
1. How To Snapchat A Girl- Don’t Be Afraid To Approach
So, there might be a girl that has really caught your eye, and the thought of her cannot leave your mind. But, there is this one problem- you don’t know the girl. So, you are sitting at home, scrolling left and right, continually looking at her profile and snaps.
A great saying I know is: “We miss 100% of the shots we don’t take.” And I couldn't agree more.
I am saying this because I genuinely believe it is essential. Sometimes I have come across the profile of a stunningly beautiful girl. I know the feeling of excitement, adrenaline rush, even lust! But I also know that sometimes I feel a bit scared of texting the girl on Snapchat, I make a stupid reason why I can't approach her, and chicken out.
I don’t want that to be you. I know that it is entirely reasonable to feel a nervous tension, especially when texting a girl you really like for the first time. So just go for it. You are more than capable of succeeding, so just go for it!
2. Snapchat Story Ideas
All girls go crazy in terms of posting. It doesn’t matter what it is. In this aspect, posting a story is also included.
And I bet your girl shares new ones quite often. So, this is an easy way for you to break the ice and form the initial contact- just write a response to her story.
However, there is also a catch here. More often than not, people prefer to respond in a silly, or rather not that intriguing way- “LOL”, “LMAO”, “DDD”, “haha”, etc.
You see, this will not really make you stand out from the crowd. What you need to focus on is writing something short that can leave a “mark”, that can be a reason for the girl to remember you, and based on which to start a conversation.
Moreover, if this is something different and catchy, she will remember it, and it will be easier for you to get her in the right mood when you start texting her.
3. Snapchat The Girl
If you respond to the girl’s story, you will most certainly be noticed. However, noticed is not equal to her going crazy over you and start texting you.
So, the best way to get her attention would be to approach her yourself. Now, there are different things you can use for this approach.
Some people try to slide into the DMs with a new pick up line that is catchy and usually involves either the girl’s name or something that she is passionate about (hobby or pets, for instance).
Another approach would be to send her a screenshot/photo of something you believe the girl will strongly resonate with- maybe this is your pet (girls love pets!), perhaps a meme you know will intrigue her, maybe a funny gift, or a simple snap of whatever activity you enjoy.
A third way to start the conversation would be to send a snap of something and directly ask her opinion about it. Pictures are vivid and capture attention. Not to mention, you can start a small talk in connection to whatever you have in mind regarding what you send the girl if you decide to use this method.
4. Approach Her Directly- Start A Conversation
There is something I want to clear out. Have you ever used an app like Tinder? If yes, then you will have noticed that many girls write this one thing- even if the two of us are a match, I am timid, and you will be the one text first.
And this is something you might not have heard before. The truth is, most girls don’t have high self-esteem and are shy.
I will repeat, even if the girls are beautiful and charming, they are still shy, and they won't approach you (in 95% of the time).
This means that if you want to find out if there can be something between the two of you, you will be the one to approach. And, frankly speaking, this is the exact thing I always do.
I directly approach the girl, start a playful small talk, and try to find out if the girl has any interest in me and if she would consider dating me. For that reason, I don’t want you to be afraid or to panic because you will be the one approach.
Heck, even if you are texting a girl on Snapchat you don’t know, this is not an excuse why not to go forward and go for it.
5. This Is A Simple Conversation, So Don’t Overcomplicate It
One thing that a lot of guys screw is that they worry way too much about the possible outcome.
Like seriously, how do you expect not to fail when you look like an erupting volcano of emotions on the inside?
What girls want is everything to feel natural. It doesn’t matter whether you are texting a girl on Snapchat, one you know or don’t know. If you are a cool guy, she will be interested in you either way.
And what would the cool guy do? Not be worried about what is going to happen to such an extent it will ruin his life.
What I can say is that girls enjoy a playful vibe. They like being teased, they smile when they know they have someone out there who is interested in them.
No girl wants to be committed to a serious relationship right away. She wants to see your vibe, emotion, and passion.
For crying out loud, you are going to have a simple short text conversation with her, and on this, or maybe the next time you text her, you are going to invite her to do something she enjoys. It is this simple. Nothing scary about it. So don’t overcomplicate when it is not needed.
6. How To Flirt On Snapchat- Be A Bit Aggressive
When I say aggressive, I don’t mean you should be pushy or needy. Moreover, I don’t recommend you should put your will over hers and force the girl to do things she doesn’t want.
What I am saying is, don’t be afraid to be a bit more forceful in your words.
In my encounters texting women, I have found that women are always more interested in me if I am a bit more aggressive, meaning that I show them I have an interest in them and not be afraid to ask them to hang out.
Moreover, if I decide the girl I am texting is in a good mood, I will also try to flirt a bit with her. Nothing too crazy or serious, just show her that there is a sexual flame and provoke sexual tension between us.
To successfully do this, you need to know that the girl you are texting has a genuine liking towards you and is somewhat interested in finding out how much further you will go.
This might happen the first time you are approaching a girl On Snapchat, the second time you are texting her, or later on.
But, my point is, when you see an excellent opener/a suitable time and mood, don’t be afraid to show her that you are sexually interested in her. If you do it playfully, this is sure to spark her interest and get her intrigued in texting you and going out with you.
7. Don’t Bombard Her With Snaps
If you are a beginner or you don’t have much experience in texting women, you might find yourself the following situation:
You come up with something really creative and attractive. You make your move. You send a snap (or whatever it is you have decided to do). And suddenly, blank. Five minutes pass, nothing. Ten more minutes pass, still nothing.
And you sit and question yourself- did she receive my message? Should I text her again? Should I send her something different? What should I do?
The answer- nothing. Be patient. You don't know if the girl is busy or not, or just how difficult her schedule might be right now. But, by no means send more messages.
There is nothing more of a turnoff than her opening the app and seeing a gigantic wall or snaps from you. Just be patient. Occupy your mind only with positivity. Be patient. And the results will come.
Let’s be honest here - texting a girl, be it on Snapchat, Tinder, Instagram, or wherever it might be, is not that difficult and complicated as you perceive it be. Nevertheless, you need to put some effort into your texting game and stop breaking a sweat over every single small detail that comes across.
If you are searching for a manual on texting girls, an excellent guide to check is “The Dating Apocalypse.” It covers the entire spectrum from sending the initial text to properly seducing her and taking her out on a date (or directly to your place!). If you want to learn more about the guide, feel free to read our review.